I think a misconception many people have is about how a certain lifestyle comes to be. I’ve realized that many people attribute such things to luck. This isn’t the case. I can guarantee that someone who clearly has done well for him or herself , and attributes their accomplishments to luck, are being if anything humble.
What kind of lifestyle do you dream of? Picture it in your head. May I remind you that a lifestyle isn’t just the where, the job, or the friends. It is made up of every detail of your life. It is in essence who you are. Your lifestyle reflects what you are about. Great people have great lifestyles. Keep that in mind.
Part of having an interesting lifestyle is actually being an interesting person. If you don’t constantly invest in yourself to become a better more interesting individual what’s going to happen? I’ll leave that for you to decide.
I’m going to teach you a secret. However you want your lifestyle to be, it can be achieved. I call it engineering your lifestyle. Shhh! Our little secret.
So on to the how. Well that’s an easy question, but at the same time one that I can’t give you a direct answer. Why? Well simply because every individual is unique. We all have our own personalities and interests.
One thing I will leave you with is this.
Go get some paper and a pen. I want you to write down all the elements you want your life to have. Everything. Let me ramble on a little bit. Do you like cars? What do you want to drive? Do you have a specific place you would like to live? Write it down. Do you enjoy being single or do you prefer a nice long term relationship? Do you see yourself travelling the world? Maybe you enjoy music or art. Going to museums? What kind of people do you want in your life? How do you relate with your family? Ok.. I’ll stop.
This was just to give you some guidelines. Now with what you wrote down what you are going to do is try to figure out HOW to get there. Sound easy? It isn’t. For the most part what you are now looking for is what skills or abilities do you need to acquire or improve in order to reach that lifestyle.
That moment when you actually decide to plan out your life and go get what you want is just pure magic. See the difference ? Instead of knowing what you want but not really going for it, but actually thinking about what you need to do. Just that I bet starts bringing up all sorts of possibilities that are already in front of you.
Don’t expect to get there tomorrow. Be willing to have patience and work for what you want. It will pay off big time. Take your time, and do it with love and care, after all it is your life you are talking about, the life of a Renaissance Man.
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